It’s been awhile since I blogged. So, here’s my story.
You never quite plan for the tragedies that happen in your life OR that God had you on a road YOU didn’t want to walk on but found out that it was the blessing, or a door He kept closed was for your sake, for your good.
My walk has been a hard one, and many times I thought
“Why me God?”
“Didn’t I do it all right to get something good?”
It wasn’t about doing everything right to get something good out of it, or just having this perfect life. It’s about the journey that brings us closer to Jesus, clinging to hope, and holding on tight. Never letting go of that hope. And even when we do, Jesus is there to pick us back up and carry our pain and release us from the chains that bind us and separate us from Jesus’ love.
I soon realized that the bad turned to good. The darkness, turned to light. Jesus brought me out of the darkness I was trapped in for so many years. The weight that laid on my shoulders wasn’t mine to carry and so I gave it to Jesus to carry, and I picked up my baggage and Jesus said to me “You don’t have to, don’t worry I got this Jenny! Follow me, and you will be safe and even the road gets tough I will walk all the way with you.”
It took surrender to leave behind my past. It took so much courage to forgive those family members who hurt me the most, and also forgive myself. To know that it wasn’t my fault. To know the meaning of that. How do you heal? How long will it take?
It’s in the moments of complete and utter surrender of our hurt, painful memories that are creating hardness in our hearts, unable to love or trust anyone anymore; keeping us from Jesus’ love.
I lost my biological mother at a young age, and ran from a biological father who was abusive. It takes all the courage inside to decide to leave and walk on a road God has you to walk with Jesus. After all the tragedy of abuse as a child and an adult I realized my purpose in this life.
To love and share the gospel of Jesus Christ.
It’s all our purpose. If we listen closely God will give us direction in this life. Don’t rush through the moments in life we live but live in those moments. Be present!
God blessed me with adoptive parents and two wonderful siblings. Out of sadness and fear I was showed love. I knew true love through the love of my new family and then God answered another prayer after two years of waiting and Jack came along and we fell in love. It wasn’t a typical love. Jesus was a big part of our story. He brought us together and from there the story of us with Jesus by our side was shinning like a bright light.
Soon after Jack and I started dating we picked up the very little we had, went to Wal-mart and bought a family sized tent for $180 and camping gear. And our journey began! Now were living out in the woods! God is giving us amazing strength to get through everything that comes our way, and show everyone through the rough times, God is ALWAYS present and our actions as believers in Jesus Christ will inspire hearts.
Recently my mom’s son passed away. I never got a chance to meet him, but I imagine how amazing he is. After seeing my mom’s amazing walk with Jesus, to not give up, but give in to Jesus, each and everyday makes me feel like life is too precious to worry about the small things, and never let tragedy take hold of the joy Jesus has for me everyday.
All my life I never felt more loved than I do now. It’s been a year and my new family has captured my heart and changed the way I look at the world. Jesus had first did that in Summer of 2015 but God’s love and grace grew my heart and prepared me for a family I never knew was being made just so I could know God’s amazing love through the love of my adoptive parents and siblings. Everyday I seen how they live, forgiving in every mistake, short comings, and fall downs. Loving me in the moments unexpected, teaching me the love of Christ through their actions. I realized it’s not that I deserved love or a family but it’s BECAUSE I AM LOVED SO, SO, SO, SOOOO MUCH BY GOD AND THOSE AROUND ME LIKE MY FAMILY, AND FUTURE HUSBAND JACK. I realized that, that was my rescue and my shelter. I grew up and learned how to be brave and live a life not of fear but, of love. Driven by love, not fear.
I have the most amazing mom who teaches me about life, love, friendship, and all the amazing mom stuff. I feel blessed everyday that God chose her to be my mom. Her actions of love, forgiveness, and understanding encourages me, even when she doesn’t realize it. My entire family inspires me! My little sister Zoe teaches me about sisterhood, and the love of Jesus. My little brother Xander teaches me about love, patience, and how to live in each moment, smiling, giggling, and even when things go awry we always have eachother with Jesus along side us. My dad Jeff who taught me to be a woman of honor, my words be solid, be kind, be loving, be forgiving, and no matter what stop to help anyone in need.
The one man in my life who shows me the love of Jesus Christ is Jack my future husband. I met him on Christmas 2017. Our story is amazing and he was and still there for me even when I was suffering with PTSD from abuse. He gave me courage, love, forgiveness, understanding, and shelter. When I first met Jack, I knew he was the one. I seen the love of Jesus living in him. I see Jesus living in him. I wept in the corner of the room with tears of joy because my heart was so touched seeing him, spring into action without anyone asking him for help when there was an emergency situation. He didn’t ask for anything in return. He just wanted to help from his heart and give love to someone else through his actions. I learned everyday how to be a better follower of Christ. To be a better woman, and continue to love others with the eyes of Jesus and NOT the eyes of the world.
“A man who loves Jesus along side a woman, is a man deserving of your heart and blessed is he who has Christ living in him.”
June 11th, 2017, I was baptized at His Place church in Mt. Vernon with my family and friends, and my future husband Jack. My public proclamation of my love for Jesus and to follow Him because he lives in me. I had given my life to Jesus as a child. I recommited my life to Christ in summer of 2015. Thinking back, time went by fast, but slow. I tried to live in each moment and not rush through it. I’ve stumbled a lot but, Jesus got me through it.
Winter is coming! Is fall season already here!
We need your help! Working together with us to create a tiny home for Jack and myself where after we are able to get married we will start a family. First we need you! Our goal is to inspire our community and hopefully the world to build more homes like ours that will be 100% self sustainable tiny house on wheels! Be apart of journey and walk with us! We would love to share, create, and inspire together!
How can I help though?
Good question!
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